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Sex coaching addresses sexual and related relationship issues as well as helping individuals and couples realize their full sexual potential through deep awareness, education, communication, erotic embodiment and expansion. Sex coaching is NOT the same as sex therapy, psychotherapy and sex coaches are NOT sex workers.

If you are experiencing problems with your sex life, intimacy issues, or relationship problems, or struggling with sexual dissatisfaction, then working with a sex coach may be very beneficial. Most people need help with their sex lives from time to time and it is not a reflection on  you or your relationship. But left unaddressed, these issues can destroy a relationship.

Sex Coaching is also for people with a sex-positive growth mindset that want healthy and accurate information to expand their capacity for intimacy, pleasure and breath of sexual experiences. 

• To rekindle desire and intimacy 
• To learn positive, effective sex communication skills (ie- feedback)
• To work through mismatched sex drive
• To help women with anatomy, pleasure and orgasms
• To learn about pleasure and how to have better sex
• To have a sex-positive, safe environment to discuss sex & intimacy without shame, blame or guilt
• To build imagination through different types of sexual play, fantasy and role play 
• To heal a sexless relationship and rebuild passions, desires and intimacy
• To explore & understand sexual anatomy (G-spot &  P-spot) to have more satisfaction and sexual fulfillment
• To discover your sexual dimensions, your erotic drives, and attachment styles and how they manifest in your relationships
• To have a more expansive sex-life and introduce novelty & variety
• To learn how to initiate sex, arousal building techniques, types of touch, dirty talk, erotic massage and more
• To learn how to bring sexual energy into all areas of life

Coaching is an interactive experience where we discover your goals and your passions and use them to help you travel down a path to the intimate life you want. It is not therapy. All sessions are virtual and fully clothed. The program is completely customized and tailored to produce a transformation and essential discoveries. As with all coaching, the full benefits of the program can only be realized by those who fully engage, commit and are open to the process.

Since coaching requires trust, connection and certain qualities to be successful, there will be an intake form and consultation session for each couple or individual seeking 1:1 coaching services. We need to mutually ensure that we are a good fit. Honesty is the best foundation for finding the right coach!

100%! What happens in our sessions stays in our sessions, just like seeing a therapist.

The time that your coaching process will take depends on the complexity of your goals and your commitment and openness to your process. Most of the programs are designed for 6 to 8 weeks increments, but clients can continue to work with me for a lifetime. I can become your lifelong Sex & Intimacy Coach as it is an ever changing landscape. The program will continue to support your most current needs, wants, desires, and goals. 

Intimate IQ is designed for heterosexual couples in a committed relationship. There are programs for couples, or individually as a man or a woman in a relationship. 

There is so much value in doing this work, as either an individual or as a couple. There is so much to discover in building your own awareness, enhancing how you effectively communicate and how you integrate the knowledge and skills in a fun and satisfying way into your physical intimacy.  Every approach will support a meaningful transformation in yourself and in your relationship.

There are three separate coach programs tracks: Couples (currently working with heterosexual couples, but stay tuned), Woman (vulva owners) and Men (penis owners). The Seminars/Events are for ALL!

I am a Relationship Coach, not a Dating Coach.  I have built a resource page of colleagues that can support individuals through dating and with different sexual orientations. It takes a beautiful tribe and I am happy to help direct you to people that may be a great fit for your needs. 

There are lots of options and different styles of Sex Coaching, but Intimate IQ has a very holistic, yet research and evidence based methodology.  The 3 Pillars of Intimate IQ are ACE (Awareness, Communication, Engagement): Self & Partner Awareness (INTRA-personal Skills), Effective Communication Skills (INTER-personal Skills), and Partner (or Individual) Engagement (EXTRA-personal Skills). As a Somatica Trained Sex & Relationship Coach, I support people to experience pleasure through their bodies and help reduce barriers and noise from their heads. Intimate IQ provides comprehensive assessments, evaluations, and skills/tools to build more intimacy and create more pleasure.